1. Take a Bath or Shower
One of the worst things you could do when going out on a date (especially if it is your first date) is to turn up unshaven, looking dirty and smelling. Women are the cleaner of the species and will partly judge you on how hygienic you are. After all, you would be appalled if she turned up for the date looking like a mutt dog with tangled fur that hadn?t bathed for days.

It doesn?t cost anything to take a bath and to make an effort to look and smell nice. Remember, bad breath and body odor are an instant turn off and she will assume that this is how you are all the time even if you are just having a bad day. As a result, she won?t be able to see beyond your appearance.

2. Arrive on Time
Whatever you do, don?t turn up late. Turning up late will send out all the wrong impressions. At first she may think she?s been stood up, but after arriving late her opinion will change to you being unreliable or not caring enough about her to be on time. If you are picking her up from her home then it is advisable to turn up five minute before you are due. Any earlier and you might catch her adjusting her makeup or still getting ready. Five minutes early is the earliest you should arrive. But never be late.

3. Give Her a Thoughtful Gift
A woman feels special when the man she is with gives her a thoughtful gift. What is a thoughtful gift? Well, you obvious know some things about a woman before a first date that came from phone conversations, emails, etc. Take what you know and buy her an appropriate date gift. For example, let?s say that the woman really likes golf. There are companies that make chocolate golf sets - a miniature chocolate club with a chocolate tee and chocolate golf ball. This would make a great first date gift. For a generic thoughtful gift, buy a chocolate rose. That?s always appropriate without being overboard.

4. Be a Gentleman
Hold the door open for her, let her walk through the doors first, pull her chair, and be polite to her along with the people around you. Women like to feel special and by treating her like a lady she will think you are fantastic.

5. Compliment Her
The first thing to say to her is you look beautiful before you even ask how she is. Keep up the compliments throughout your date, but do not go over board (3-4 for the night should be more than enough). A woman loves to be complimented, to feel beautiful and to think that you are attracted to her. The more sincere and observant your compliment, the bigger impact it will have. But remember again not to go overboard. More than four compliments may make you appear fake and not real.

6. Listen to Her and Ask Questions
Nobody wants to spend the whole night listening to someone talk about themselves. But you do have to get to know each other. Ask her questions, but more importantly listen to what she has to say. A woman is attracted to a man who is genuinely interested in hearing what she has to say. Spend a lot more time asking her questions and letting her talk than talking yourself.

7. Prepare for the Conversation
The last thing you want is to be sitting at a meal with nothing to talk about. Think about your date and what you would like to know about her. You may think that it is easy to talk and that you will not run out of questions to ask or that you will automatically have the answers but until you are in the situation, you have no idea what it will be like. Avoid talking about past relationships or other women while on the date. Keep your focus, attention, and conversation fully on her.

8. Pay for the Date
It?s virtually always appropriate for a gentleman to offer to pay for the date. When a man takes it upon himself to pay for the date, he is displaying that old act of ?chivalry? that is missing from many men these days. However, some women feel more comfortable going ?dutch? and if she insists on this, then don?t resist. To avoid awkwardness, make sure you let her know before the date that you plan on paying for it.

9. The Goodnight Kiss
Some women prefer not to kiss after a first date, while others may be disappointed if the guy doesn?t even try. There is no easy answer to this question. Body language and chemistry throughout the night is key in the decision you make. If it feels right, then you may want to consider making the move. If it doesn?t feel right then a friendly hug may be more appropriate. Remember, you are in Thailand!

10. I?ll Call You
Only tell her that you will call her if you mean it and intend on seeing her again. Do not, under any circumstances, tell her you will call her if you are not interested and have no plans to call her. In this case, when saying goodbye, just say, ?It was nice meeting you? and wish her luck. Or you could just say good night, smile and walk a way. But if you do like her and are interested, then you must let her know.

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Aries - Your kisses are quick and passionate fits of lustful pleasure that are there and then gone.

Taurus - your kisses linger; they are deliberate, heartfelt and they can go on and on and on.

Gemini - your kisses are interrupted by spasms of giggles, smiles and funny observations.

Cancer - Your kisses are warm and tender, and you never want to let them go.

Leo - Your kisses wild and uninhibited, biting and clawing; you expect applause for your performance

Virgo - Your kisses are so subtle and tidy, your lover only notice them ounces you've finished.

Libra - You're too busy worrying about your breadth to really get into your kisses.

Scorpio - You skip the kiss and get to straight to whatever comes next for you.

Sagittarius - Your kisses are surprising, spontaneous affairs that leave the kissed wanting more.

Capricorn - Your kisses are intense moments of sublime relief from the stress of your day.

Aquarius - Your kisses are wet and messy, and you tend to keep your eyes open.

Pisces - Your kisses are starry-eyed, amorous and long-lasting.

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Dating or Hardcore Gamers. What You Love?

We've all been there before. It's Friday night and your single. You unconscious mind says maybe you should go out and meet some people, get into the dating world, or find a relationship; it'll be healthy for you. But your conscious mind says that maybe bashing on noob would be a better idea. Then it confirms and says, "Yeah it is..." So what do you do? You go to the fridge and stock up endless bottles of orange soda and king size bags of Ruffles. Before you know it, it's 3 AM and you say to yourself, "I'll go into my dating ventures tomorrow." But the next day comes, and the same thing happens. It's an endless cycle and you feel trapped as a single online computer gamer.
Hey, it's okay. You may think that this life is pathetic and sad, but it's not. Most computer gamers in the world are going through the same exact thing. It's very easy to break the habit and improve your dating life even though your personality from the computer gaming world and the real world conflict with each other. Here are some tips.
1. Motivate yourself by visualization...
How would your life would be different if you could balance that dating life with your computer gaming life? Would you be happier? Here, take an image that you would like and actually focus on it. Imagine yourself on your computer desk all day, everyday. Then imagine that instead of talking to a person that you feel attracted to online, it's someone that you can actually interact with. I know it sounds lame, but this might be your reality!
2. Know how attraction works...
Attraction are qualities that pull an opposite force towards itself. Much of attraction comes from the emotions created between two people. Have you ever thought of an intense emotion that you would like to share with someone that you wanted to do? No I'm not talking about Nob bashing a level 3 character and saying "loll!" or "loam!" to them. I'm talking about experiences that you may have had in the past or thought about that might be filled with high level of emotions perhaps like running through the sprinklers.
Okay, that last part might have been kind of... random (unless you enjoy getting wet, I don't know) but you get the point. I know how it feels like to be single and a dedicated computer gamer. It's a passion that we all share that others may not fully understand. I've been through it and honestly I think a lot of people just think that being a computer gamer and dating just don't mix. That's simply not true.

Ask women about the kind of relationship they'd like to have, and they're likely to give you an example of a real-life couple (probably celebrities). Then if you ask how they think their "ideal" couples got and stayed together, they'll most likely give you either one of two replies.

The first of the two answers is "luck." These women believe that relationships are based on "fate," "compatibility," or other things that are basically out of their control. They believe in the idea that everyone, themselves included, has a "soul mate" out there waiting to find them. In other words, they're waiting for "the one" to come along.

The second of the two possible answers is "skill." Women who give this answer believe that great relationships are made, not born, and that the success of the relationship depends on how well the couple get along and work together. In other words, these women believe that they have the power to either make a relationship work or throw it onto the rocks.

Looking at the two types of thinking, which one do you think is more likely to end up with a healthy, nurturing, more permanent relationship?

The second type, of course.

But which type of thinking do you really have?

Not to point fingers, but a lot of women do believe that there's really someone out there that's meant for them. There's no way of disproving that idea, either, but with all the great single men out there today, what do you think are the odds of "once in a lifetime" happening in yours? It's a sad statistic, but many women hopelessly wait for "the one" to come by, not realizing that they could actually find him themselves if they only got up and tried.

That's what women with the second type of thinking do - they waste no time navel-gazing and do something. They go out, they socialize, they meet new men - in other words, they work on the skills necessary to attract men and get them to commit.

Yes, it's a skill. You see, men don't think the same way as women do. They can't be convinced to love you; no matter how "compatible" you think the two of you are. Instead, you can show them that you're the woman who can make their lives more fun - and watch them do all the work.

In fact, men would do anything to be with a smart, independent woman who can make life more enjoyable. After all, you're out there looking for someone who'd make you happy for the rest of your life... cans you blames the men for wanting the same thing?

So go ahead and make those changes. If you can honestly show them that you can stand on your own two feet and that you're amazing fun to be with - then it won't be long before the first of these men start asking you for your number.

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What Makes Thai Herbs Amazing?
There are many things that are characteristics of Thailand, and have made a brand name
for Thailand. These are Thai boxing, Thai dance, Thai silk, Thai rice, Thai fruits and of course.Thai food The ingredients that make Thai food amazing are Thai ‘herbs’, which, together with ‘spices’, have been ingeniously blended in Thai cuisine. The recipes of Thai food have as their main ingredients.

Although most herbs are used are used as condiments or seasoning materials, Thai hers are somewhat different from all other herbs. They have characteristic taste and aroma that are not found in other herbs. They have characteristic taste and aroma that are not found in other herbs. For example, ‘Horapha’ or Thai basil (Ocimum basilicum), the same species as the well-known sweet basils, has distinct aroma and flovor from that of other sweet basils and is well suited for several Thai dishes, which cannot be replaced with other sweet basils or other herbal materials. These dishes include ‘Kaeng Khieo Wan’, ‘Kaeng Phet’, ‘Phat Makheua Yao’, stc. Similarly, ‘Kaphrao’ or Thai holy basil (Ocimun tenuiflorum), has a distinct flavor and aroma from other holy basil (which has rarely been used as herbs as herbs in other countries); it has made Thai dishes, such as ‘Kai Pat Bai Kaphrao’, very well known to the Thais as well as foreigners. ‘Maeng Lak’ or hairy basil (Ocimum americanum) is indispensable in ‘Khanom Chin Nam Ya’ and ‘Kaeng Riang’. ‘Makrut’ or kaffir lime (Citrus hvstrix) whose leaves are used in many Thai dishes, gives a unique aroma and flavorl it is a major ingredient of the world famous Thai soup, known as ‘Tom Yam Kung’. Like Thai spices, Thai herbs are uniquely blended with Thai dishes such that they are inseoarable. ‘Tom Yam Kung’. For example, is world famous because it contains a blend of many herbs (and also a few spices), among them kaffir lime leaves, lemongrass stem, limejuice and chili (the last three, although not the leafy nor soft flowering parts of plant, but are treated here as herbs since they come from fleshy part of the plant). Two other related types of Thai dishes, ‘Yam’ and ‘Phla’. Will not tast as good without such herbs as kicchen mint,lemongrass and lime. In addition to adding flavor to the dishes, most Thai herbs also provide health benefits from their inherent medicinal properties. Thus, it is fair to say that Thai herbs. With their beautiful form with nice green color, are added as a flavoring, seasoning, or garnish, making Thai dishes both tasty and beautiful, as well as soothing the stomach with their stomach with their refreshing and medicinal properties.

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Many times dating is all about confidence. People like people who are confident. This does make a lot of sense: you would want to meet someone who was happy, comfortable around themselves and easy to be around wouldn't you? Those are some common traits of a confident person. Fortunately, confidence can be learned and you can develop more as time goes on.

Accept yourself. One of the first steps to becoming a confident dater is to accept you. Self may be short or you may have a big laugh, though learning to accept yourself exactly as you are will make you much more confident. People like people that accept themselves. When you accept yourself, it is like you are comfortable in your own skin. The person that accepts themselves is easy to be around because quite often they will accept other people just as they are. It is easier to accept other people, as they are when you have accepted yourself as you are.

Know your good traits. We all have good traits. Knowing what yours are will help make you more confident at dating. If you are someone who can easily entertain people with a joke or if you make a mean margarita, these are great abilities that make you unique. While you don't want someone to be around you just for your traits having these traits will help attract someone.

e all want someone with similar or complementary traits to our own. Athletic people most often want to date athletic people. Creative people prefer to date creative people. Ambitious people like to date ambitious people as well. Knowing your positive traits increases your confidence and helps you understand what makes you attractive to people.

Make yourself the best you can be. While most of us cannot look like Cindy Crawford, many of us can admit easily that we can look better with some extra effort. A new haircut and some shiny shoes can work wonders. Even just ironing the shirt you are wearing can sometimes make a big difference. Good grooming and hygiene habits are critical when it comes to dating. You are the only you that you've got so take good care of yourself! Eat properly and exercise daily. All of this will make you much more confident while dating.

Meet more people. Meeting new people can be kind of stressful. What makes meeting new people very stressful is often we put many expectations on these meetings. If you are hoping the new love of your life will be the one you meet, you are putting a lot of hope on this one particular meeting. You can easily relieve some of this expectation anxiety by simply learning to meet more people. Get out there and socialize more. Or learn to talk to people while you are out and about doing your regular chores. You'll soon discover that people will talk to you if you talk to them. Being positive and friendly will have more people approaching you easily.

With some practice, you can soon become more confident at dating. Dating can be challenging for so many of us. Even the person who you think has everything may be the one who gets the most nervous about dating. Learn to develop a positive attitude about dating and look forward to meeting new people. The next new person you meet could be very special to you!

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This lesson deals with dating related sentences. How you exchange numbers and ask your partner out or tell him/her some sweet things. Surprise your Thai sweetie with some of these sentences. This lesson will be soon followed by another lesson that just deals with feelings.

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You are so cute /Kuhn narak mak / คุณน่ารักมาก
You look so beautiful/ Khun suay mak / คุณสวยมาก
I like you / Pom chorp khun / ผมชอบคุณ
I like you very much /Pom chorp khun mak/ ผมชอบคุณมาก
Can i have your number /Pom kor ber torasap dai mai/ ผมขอเบอร์โทรศัพท์ได้ไหม
Here is my number /Nee ber torasap kong pom/ นี่เบอร์โทรศัพท์ของผม
I will give you a call/ Laew pom ja to ha / แล้วผมจะโทรหา
Can you give me a call /To ha pom dai mai / โทรหาผมได้ไหม
Are you free tonight /Keun nee khun wang mai / คืนนี้คุณว่างไหม
Are you free tomorrow/ Prung nee khun wang mai / พรุ่งนี้คุณว่างไหม
Can i see you tomorrow /Prung nee pom jer khun dai mai/ พรุ่งนี้ผมเจอคุณได้ไหม
Can you stay tonight /Keun nee yu dai mai /คืนนี้อยู่ได้ไหม
Do you want a drink /Khun yak deum arai mai /คุณอยากดื่มอะไรไหม
I love you / Pom rak khun / ผมรักคุณ
Kiss me / Joop pom noi / จูบผมหน่อย
Let’s go to my place /Pai tee hong kong pom gan ter /ไปที่ห้องของผมกันเถอะ
Thank you for today /Korp khun sam rap wannee /ขอบคุณสำหรับวันนี้
Sweet dreams /Fan dee na/ฝันดีนะ

Top 10 Reasons to be in Love
1. If you act interested in what he is saying, the more attention you get.
2. You learn just how... rewarding... it is when someone blocks out your blabbering and the only words they respond with are "yes dear", "of course", "why not" and "go ahead". (Especially after you discover the trend!)
3. You learn that it is okay to snuggle, nuzzle and kiss cute animals,
especially if she finds it adorable.
4. The more you teach her, the more she becomes like the guys...
the more you get to show her off!
5. You can use her as an excuse to watch the new chick flick
you have kind of been wanting to see. Okay, okay, you have been dying to see.

6. Shopping is always more fun when you open your wallet
and chose the card with HIS name on it, instead of yours.

7. You no longer feel out of place at social events for being single, yet you dont feel bad about adding to the out of placeness.

8. She will always give you a reason to feel like a stong, burly man.
"Honey, something's wrong with my car", "Can you come move this for me?".

9. You forget what it is like to feel manly when you are walking
around in the new pink tee's she picked out for you... and kind of like it.

10. You now have someone to test that new recipe, haircut,
etc on that you have been craving to try, but have just lacked that victim to try it on

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Some people live for the fortune
Some people live just for the fame
Some people live for the power, yeah
Some people live just to play the game
Some people think that the physical things

Define what's within
And I've been there before
But that life's a bore
So full of the superficial

Some people want it all
But I don't want nothing at all
If it ain't you baby
If I ain't got you baby
Some people want diamond rings
Some just want everything
But everything means nothing
If I ain't got you,

Hello theirs!
Regarding to all best friends here!!,Thank you so much for any message, voted.I really enjoyed to got it.It's so pleasure to my life to met such lot new friends in this mythailove.
I just found my true love and married on 10th Jan08 ago.I was lucky to found the best man of my life.

I wished all friends here to be lucky to found the lover one day like me.All images here of woman or man will be forever my good memoried with all one have same heart to looking for ture love.I appreciated that.
With wonderful heart and warmest greeting from me.
Best regards..
Lovely Paan'
14 April 08

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Tradition of making merit

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Making merit means doing good things as mentioned in religious doctrine. Thais’ ways of life, since their birth until their death is so familiar with making merit. They strongly believe they ought to regularly make and gain merit which would bring them happiness, peaceful life and other good things. Gaining merit will strengthen them to overcome any obstacles or misfortune they are suffering. They intend to gain more merit because they also believe their accumulated merit would help them to be in heaven or a peaceful place after their death. Even more merit they gained would help them to reach nirvana (divine peace beyond this world).

Thais’ belief is based on the Buddhist doctrine. The concept is as stated in a Thai proverb “if you do good you will receive good; if you do evil you will receive evil ”. It means the result of Karma which represents the evaluation of all life events, that is, you will receive the outcome of what you have already initiated.

A common rule in making merit is to prepare one’s mind and thoughts.The mind has to be purified and ready. Gaining merit, however, must not bring any trouble or worry to oneself or others.

There are three ways of making and gaining merit. They are

1) to give alms

2) to maintain religious commandment, and

3) to pray

If all of these are perfectly met, it represents a great merit making. But most of people see that making merit is to give alms. That is partly true because it is the first step of a fully-gained merit. On this occasion only alms giving will be expressed as it is a very common Thais’ way of life.